Sean safe home

21.03.2009
00:37
Skrevet av Kata Wagner-Beg

home safe home

Sean safe home in his own bed (press for bigger size)

first night in own bed

Hi, finally I have some time to tell what happen...and it was not all good. In fact..besides that I got blessed with a beautiful son, most ting was like a nightmare.

First let me say...I had a natural birth, and I am little proud of that...most girls I meet at the hospital just came in at a "booked" time and cut out the baby, like it is fashion to schedule in a birth if you know what I mean. I don't feel for being cut up and I wanted to have a natural birth.. and I had that..with no cutting or sewing what so ever.

I was lucky, because it went fast..everything was over in 3 hours...but it was really more painful that I could imagine in advance and I feel really sorry for those who have long births. Also..so many told me..as soon as the baby is out, all pain will go away. -No way is that true- is my experience to that saying. It was still very much pain afterand I had actually a hard time enjoying the little one. I had strong pain and I was a little bit like in "coma"...but I rememberI was crying and was overwhelmed with emotions when Sean was lifted up to my chest.

Btw.. Frode was cutting the cord and the doctor was collection the blood from it and sentit to Cyro-Save
Do youhave any experiencewith that? Pleaseshare with me!

Anyway, now my problems started...and I am so pissed on all that has happen...I could write a book about it. Instead I choose to just make notes so you don't get to much bored with my story.

* I got an Epidural when I already had a 6 cm opening.I did not ask for an Epidural. Due to this Epidural Igot problems.

1. I got extreme pain in my back and especially in my neck after the birth. At some point I could not hold my head up by own power.

2. They gave me lots of painkillers and water through a tube (intravenous) that they said was safe for Sean...but he started to puke out the food. Nor did it help me a lot, I still felt the pain

3. I had millions of doctors coming and take a look at me and they all said different.One say rest, one say move a lot, one say walk around..etc

4.I started to get (and I still have) involuntary movements in my face...it is horrible...and myface andfingerswas swollen.

5. My doctor refused to admit that I should never have Epidural and that everything was fine with me and only after I made enough noise they sent me to MRi. But then he only took MRi of my head and lied about info in the papers. (I got panic in the MRi tube and went out to early - he wrote in the papers that I had saidNO to a new MRi - but the fact was that he never even asked)

6. A good friend help me to a new hospital (while still registered at the first one), to a brain specialist that wanted to help me find out what was wrong with me. This my doctor found out and the whole board of doctors came to me the same day after I came back from the other hospital. My doctorlied again and said that thisnew doctor did not wanna help me...but that was not true..he got panic from his first lie..and the main boss doctor said he will send the bestdoctor to me and check me..and if she says that I need one more MRi..I will get it.

7. This women looked at me and said that I did not need a MRi, she explained that when they took out the Epidural..(what Ishould NEVER had in the first place)...I lost some brain water???and this is what gives me this pain and this movements in my face. Now my mouth was like when you go to the dentist and get injection...I could not speak clear.Then she says that this can takes weeks to recover from...and the way to do it is to rest a lot..and drink as much water I manage to put into my body.

8. That day I could go home...Now more, a pain in my butt that has become more and more painful is telling me something is wrong down there as well...and yes..due to that the epidural took away my "feelings" I had pushed so hard during the delivery that I burst a bone. So that was the answer why I could not sit good or in some position not at all.

9. In all this mess, Sean that is born 3 weeks to early slept a lot in the beginning in an incubator. My breastbecame huge..and hard like stone. AndI needed to get milk out. I cant not even remember how many hands that have been trying to help me..by massage me and trying to empty me. And when Sean should eat..it was the worst pain ever..I cantbelieve how painful that is...

10. With help from a good friend I have been seeing aneurolog and I had 3 more MRI`s - but I am still not 100% sure what is wrong with me..so right now I have no other choice to do as told..rest and drink a lot.

Frode and my mother have bought all kinds of cream, silicon protection, breast feeding machine etc so that I can cope with giving mother milk. I have found out that lots of women really have a problem with this, but is like tabu, nobody really speak about it. A good place for Norwegians with breast feeding challenges is to CHECK OUT this page. It has been very little sleeping the last days, but that is a minor challenge :-)

tired boys
Two very tired boys

But ...no matter how much pain I have and had..I would do it all over again for my result. Sean is just so beautiful, I can look at him for hours and hours - it is like falling in love..there are no other words that can describe this feeling.
I am in Love!!!!!

trying out the carseat
maxicosi
Going Home!!!!


Kommentarer:
Postet av: Tina

Oi, oi.. Litt av en opplevelse du har hatt da! :/ Trist hre at ting ikke gr snn man vil, og at det finnes s mange inkompetente leger rundt omkring som sitter der p sin hye hest og nekter ta skylden for noe som helst. rh, kjenner jeg blir sinna p vegne av deg. Men s utrolig skjnn Sean er, og kjekt at han er frisk og fin. :o)Hper du blir bedre snart. Og det der med ammingen er ikke bare bare, nei. Det tok 7 uker fr Benjami skjnte at han skulle suge AV puppen, ikke bare smatte p den. :PMasse lykke til i tiden som kommer!Klem :o)

21.03.2009 | 01:29
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Postet av: VictoriaDesire

S kjedelig hre at det gikk s galt. Men, som du sier, resultatet ble veldig bra da! Dere har ftt en utrolig nydelig snn! Gratulerer s mye:) Synes du er veldig sterk. Lykke til videre!

21.03.2009 | 01:56
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Postet av: Marita^^

Oi, stakkar deg! Det hrtes virkelig ikke godt ut. Hper du blir bra snart da:) God bedring. Og Sean er kjempe st, nydelig gutt! Gratulerer kjempe masse:)Og lykke til videre:)

21.03.2009 | 10:03
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Postet av: Artica

Gratulerer med en nydelig gutt

21.03.2009 | 10:30
Postet av: Linda Kristine

Hei skjnne jenta :-)nsker frst og fremst gratulere deg s mye med din nyfdte snn. Han er s nydelig!!!Hper alt er bra med dere og den lille. Ogs var det leit hre at du fikk s mye problemer underveis. Hper du kommer deg fort til hektene :-)Varme klemmer og tanker sendes i din retning,Linda Kristine Solbakken.

21.03.2009 | 10:51
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Postet av: Emilie

Utrolig st gutt da :)

21.03.2009 | 11:28
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Postet av: Sussi

Sv: Tusen takk ste du... :) Uff! Det var litt av en fdselshistorie. S kjedelig hre at det ble s mye tull og komplikanskjoner for deg. Hper alt gr bra med deg og at du blir frisk snart! STOR KLEM tilbake!!!

21.03.2009 | 14:13
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Postet av: Meg

Uff, det var ikke kjekt! Haaper du kommer deg kjapt og faar nyte tiden sammen med lille gutten din :-)Hvilket sykehus var det du var paa?

21.03.2009 | 16:51
Postet av: Brigitte

OH MY GOD, Kata, I got goosebumps ALL over and tears in my eyes, I feel SOOOO sorry for you!!!!!!!!!!!! It must have been SOOOO tough!! do you think it would've been better in a Norwegian hospital? So maybe next time you will go to Norway then!But Sean looks amazing and I can understand that it takes away a bit of the pain!I can't wait to see a smiling picture of you!!God bless you and your family!!!! Lots of love!!!!REST!!!! And make Frode do most of the job, OK ;-)

21.03.2009 | 17:08
Postet av: Kata Wagner Berg

Til meg:Jeg har vrt innom 3 sykehus St.Istvan, Orszgos Idegsebszeti Tudomnyos Intzet og Flr Ferenc Krhz

21.03.2009 | 17:43
Postet av: Kata Wagner Berg

BirgitteMany thx for you concern, maybe thing would have been better in Norway..and if it will be a next time I will for sure deliver in Norway.The superfunny part..is that Frode did damage himself yesterday..on training...he stepped over major and his foot looked like a balloon..and he was at xray yesterday..he funny says that he has been in 4 hospitals in 4 days.He need to rest too and can not use his leg for 6 weeks.My mother is here to help..lets hope nothing more happens now hihihih

21.03.2009 | 17:50
Postet av: Kata Wagner Berg

Takk for hilsner og varme tanker

21.03.2009 | 17:52
Postet av: Ida Kornelia

S vakker a:)

21.03.2009 | 19:23
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Postet av: Therese

Hei Sta:)Det var kjedelig hre at det gikk snn da:/ Det du forklarer hres veldig likt ut noe jeg fikk med forbindelse med Spinal punktajsen jeg fikk (de stikker helt likt men lengre inn enn Epudural) Det hres nesten ut som de har stukket for langt inn, nr jeg kom til fden s sa jeg at jeg ikke villa ha Epudural fordi jeg visste hva som kunne skje hvis de stakk den for langt inn:( Da fr man helt sinsykt vondt i hode, jeg klarte ikke st eller holde meg opp, jeg ble kjempe drlig og ble senge liggende i nesten 2 uker:/ Helt grusomt! og der l jeg med Eline i magen i tilegg:/ Usj..Uansett da, s er lille gutten din kjempe st:):) Han er S liten da:):) Kjempe herlig assa:)Den dressen der hadde jeg til Eline ogs;)Og det bilsete:D Kos deg masse snuppa:D:D Klem Therese og Eline:)

21.03.2009 | 19:52
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Postet av: Brigitte

Oh nooooo Frode too!!! Thank God for your mother, right;)I hope you will be SOON better!!! Just take things slow, that's all you can do! And just by looking at Sean you will feel in heaven at the same time as the pain;)You didn't deserve this, but then again, no one does!I'll pray you'll be a lot better soon!!! Warm Hugs :-)

22.03.2009 | 02:42
Postet av: meg

Hei igjen, tusen takk for svar. Bor i Budapest sammen med mannen min, og vil bare forsikre meg om naar tiden for barn kommer at jeg vet hvor jeg skal henvende meg. Kjenner mange her som har foedt paa Telki sykehus og har hatt svaert gode erfaringer, saa jeg var litt nysgjerrig paa om det var der du var. Her er en link : http://www.telkihospital.hu/telki/en/contact_content.jsp , for neste gang, i tilfelle du ikke har blitt avskrekket, og roemmer til Norge heller ( Har selv alltid det i bakhodet! ) :-) Haaper du koser deg med lille Sean og at du blir helt frisk igjen snart!

22.03.2009 | 11:31
Postet av: Miss Evi

Finally I hear something from you...I feel so sorry about the whole thing happened with you. Hope you feel better and we have a chance to talk soon! Sean is so gorgeous...OMG!Sending you love darling!

22.03.2009 | 13:25
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Postet av: Nikoletta

Ur isten Kata, Frode is!!!? remelem gyorsan javultok mindanyian akor... majd hivjal ha lesz idd ok. Olvastam a storyt, nincs szavam!Nezek most jegyeket julius eleljere, jo lenne neked? otthon leszel? de persze a nagyinal fogok lakni.Puszi addigis!

22.03.2009 | 20:52
Postet av: katie

omg!!!! con grats hun!! he is as beautiful as his mother!!:)

22.03.2009 | 23:43
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Postet av: Katrine Henanger

omg! now i read it all. that sounds horrible! hope you will get better soon!

22.03.2009 | 23:56
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Postet av: Diana

I'm so sorry to hear that Kata. Hope you're feeling better now. Sean is so gorgeous. Enjoy your time with your son and look after yourself. Thanks God you've got your Mum there to help you. Get well Frode soon too. You're so lucky Kata, you've got a wonderful family. Big hugs.

23.03.2009 | 10:59
Postet av: Kata Wagner Berg

Thx so much for your support and warm words girls, I am feeling better now, and Frode too. Love makes wounds heal faster right :)Hug Kata

23.03.2009 | 11:25
Postet av: Kata Wagner Berg

Szia Evi ! Jo volt tegnap beszelni vegre egy kicsit! Sajnalom ,h nem vagy itt :( Mire jossz Sean mar 3 honapos lesz....huu addigra mar biztos konyebben mennek majd a dolgok.Egyebkent,naprol napra mar jobban vagyok :)Szia Nikol!Hat meg a Frode is...."rank jar a rud"Nyar nagy reszet itthon toltjuk az tutti, majd Szeptember elejen megyunk 3 hetre Benidormba...jujjj azt mar nagyon varom! :) Talaltal idopontot mikor jossz? Majd megyunk nagy setakra Seannal :)

24.03.2009 | 13:54
Postet av: Gro Anita

herregud s forferdelig.... Jeg er helt sjokkert over at du har ftt s drlig behandling...Jeg fikk ogs utrolig drlig behandling da jeg skulle ha Oscar, men denne behandlingen du har ftt tar kaka...Jeg hper du blir helt frisk igjen, og kommer deg gjennom dette...Mange varme god bedrings tanker og klemmer...

24.03.2009 | 15:11
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Postet av: Alexandra

Szia Kata! Mg egyszer gratullok, olvasva, hogy min kellett keresztlmenned. :( Ami a szoptatst illeti, nlunk is nagyon fjdalmas volt nekem, gyhogy 3 ht szoptats utn azt csinltam, hogy lefejtem a tejet, s cumisvegből adtam kosnak. 9 hnapos korig kapott anyatejet, szval emiatt nem lett hamarabb vge az anyatejes időszaknak, de a mellszvval nem fjt gy, mint ahogy kos harapott. Mindenesetre arra nagyon kell figyelni, hogy milyen cumisveget vlasztasz (mi csak Avent-eset hasznltunk). Ja, s mg egy (kretlen) tancs: a patikban tudsz venni Clarasept kzmost, ami fertőtlentős, de nem teszi tnkre a kezed. Neknk gy sikerlt "megszni" egy influenzajrvnyt. :)

26.03.2009 | 20:46
Postet av: Ida Marie

Nydelig!

27.03.2009 | 17:53
Postet av: Kata Wagner Berg

Alexandra!Koszonom a tanacsokat...hat nem egyszeru dolgok ezek.Seannak van 3 fele cumisuvege, es igen,mi is az Avents-osat szeretjuk a legjobban. Viszont sokkal hoszabb ideig kell bofiztetni, ha cumisuvegbol eszik :( A gepi leszivas nekem is bevalt,es fele annyira se faj, mint amikor Sean csocsalja :)Akos most mennyi idos?

28.03.2009 | 10:40
Postet av:

Szia Kata! kos mr kt ves mlt decemberben. :) A bfiztetsnl mi cselesek voltunk: vettnk a gygyszertrban Infacol-t, amiből minden evs előtt adtunk neki, s megszűnt a hasfjsa, s knnyebben jttek ki a buborkok, szval a bfiztets sem tartott olyan sokig. Itt tallod a lerst: http://www.pirulapatika.hu/210154594/betegtajekoztato/infacol_szuszpenzioA cumisvegre azrt is kell figyelni, mert a fogai llst befolysolhatja. :)Ha tudok brmiben tippet adni, szlj. :) Mikor lesznek j kpek? :)

06.04.2009 | 11:52
Postet av: Kata Wagner Berg

Szia Alexandra!Most lattam csak,h irtal :(Koszi ujra a jotanacsokat :)En nem lathatlak titeket valhol? Iwiw? Facebook?...?Pont most volt a vedono nallunk...szelcsovet ajanlott...nam jol hangzik,ti probaltatok? es ez az orszivo-porszivo is eleg drasztikusan hangzik....?Kellemes Husvetot!

10.04.2009 | 12:42
Postet av: tina

Hei:)Du er ikke alene om ammevondt! Jeg fikk baby 14. mars og det brenner enn i det ene brystet nr jeg skal amme:( Cluet er finne riktig "tak" for babyen, har ftt det til p ene brystet men ikke andre.. enn:)Jeg l i 26 timer i fdsel, s akutt keisersnitt.. s det kunne vrt vrre;)Lykke til!

13.04.2009 | 15:26
Postet av: Ida-Kristin

Han var bare adorable!

03.05.2009 | 23:52
URL: http://www.idakristins.blogg.no

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Fra: Fredrikstad Fdt: 1982 I am a 1982 model from Hungary, Budapest. I was living in Norway( Fredrikstad) for 4 years.. now I have moved back to Budapest with my husband, Frode, and with Mini (Our dog) Update: We have now 2 boys, Sean and Brendon, together :)) I love travelling and take pictures as you can see on my blogg ;) Mer...

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